Ashlee Gives It to You Straight
Nothing Kahdijiha did or said at the country club bothered me in particular, it was just her energy. She is so negative! She spews such hate! I actually felt sorry for her that day. To watch her sit there at that table, just full of hate...I could never give that energy to anyone—ever!
I didn't have an issue with Kahdijiha to begin with, as I didn't even know her last name. She takes offense to everything! That is why Harvin nicknamed her and her mother "The Chips" since they always have a chip on their shoulders.
When I invited Kahdijiha to my divorce party, I couldn't have cared less if she came or not. I only invited her because I liked her aunt, Brié, and thought that she was put together so well and had a beautiful energy. Brié is really just a voice of reason for Kahdijiha or, at least, that was what I saw that day at the country club.
I thought that Kahdijiha's reaction to my invitation was so childish. I would never be so rude like that and make a scene. I would have politely just accepted the invitation and made my decision later.
As for the bottle of Cristal, I always bring wine or champagne to a party as a gift for the host or hostess. It is only polite. I thought it would have been a kind gesture to share, but of course, Kahdijiha had to spin it into something negative because she keeps a chip on her shoulder at all times.
Let's get another thing straight: Meagan was never Zach's girlfriend. Having sex with someone a few times does not make you a "girlfriend." Zach wasn't my boyfriend either. We only made it official until after he cleaned his act up. His two or three week rendezvous with Meagan occurred while I was away for a bit doing business in Beverly Hills with my sister. Meagan knew about me the whole time, as Zach and I spoke daily while I was away since we were working on a joint business venture. That's how we fell in love to start with, and where our bond originated.
What I love most about Zach is his beautiful soul and spirit! I am his first real girlfriend. He has had a few girls here and there, but none that he had committed to wholeheartedly. I love that I am the girl that tamed the "tiger" and stole his heart! I feel special that after his 38 years on this Earth, he chose me to love and cherish!
There are no hard feelings between Meagan and I. I love Meagan! She is really sweet, and we have kindred spirits, for sure! I honestly hate the way we met, but it hasn't held us back from having a "unicorn" bond, which is Meg's term for something rare and magical. Meagan is still a Boss Bitch-in-training! However, she is growing her balls and I am proud!
Another girl whom I definitely have a bond with is Harvin. I decided to meet Harvin and her sister, Meyer, at the strip club because they are "rebel chicks" and I knew that it would be the best place to be in the company of women who look hot like us. We are, after all, "the blonde trio." I don't hold Meyer's behavior at the strip club against her. I just think Meyer was confused at the time because she was drinking the Kahdijiha Kool-Aid. And, of course, I never had a problem with Harvin. I would never judge Harvin because of Meyer's behavior! I always knew Harvin and I would be the best of friends!
Later, Meyer gave me a little grenade gift at my divorce party. I thought it was silly and totally not my style! The only reason I was upset when I had security escort them out was because I just didn't like having to kick someone out of my party. I am such a fabulous hostess and I had never witnessed such madness. I was over-the-top upset to have that behavior take place at my party!
Furthermore, I was teary-eyed only because I allowed Meyer to get to me like that. It is very hard to get a rise out of me! On top of that, my mom was at the party and she was utterly mortified at the scene and the language! I was embarrassed by the whole thing because it was suppose to just be a silly little party. I throw parties for literally everything. I felt like Meyer completely took the fun out of the party and sabotaged such a fun night.
I guess people were expecting a fight between Kahdijiha and I, but I was just surprised there was a fight, period! Who goes to a party to fight? I have never seen behavior of that magnitude ever!
I've been asked if I was surprised that Kahdijiha came to my party. I never even thought about it! I was too concerned with helping JLoren design my fabulous dress and my hairstylist, Keon, create my insane updo to worry about that! Plus, my stylist, Paris, told me to not even think about her after she insulted my dress at the country club! She has zero relevance in my life!
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